It is by no means easy to hold beliefs for which you would be willing to die, and yet to remain open to new insights; but it is precisely such a combination of commitment and inquiry that constitutes religious maturity (Ian Barbour)
Expectations for eCircle Contributors
Contributors to an eCircle will be expected to provide a welcoming space for respectful conversation by aspiring to the following ideals.
- I will try to listen well, providing each person with a welcoming space to express her perspective on the issue at hand
- I will seek to empathetically understand the reasons another person has for her perspective
- I will express my perspective, and my reasons for holding that perspective, with commitment and conviction, but with a non-coercive style that invites conversation with a person who disagrees with me
- In my conversation with a person who disagrees with me, I will explore whether we can find some common ground that can further the conversation. But, if we cannot find common ground, I will conclude that “we can only agree to disagree;” yet I will do so in a way that demonstrates respect for the other and concern for her well-being and does not foreclose the possibility of future conversations.
- In aspiring to these ideals for conversation, I will also aspire to be characterized by humility, courage, patience and love
Guidelines for Posting Comments
Comments from readers are encouraged throughout the course of an eCircle. All comments will be read, and a comment will be posted if it satisfies the following guidelines.
On the positive side, a good comment has the following qualities:
- specifically relevant to the issue or questions raised by the original post
- reasonably short and concise
- respectful in tone and language (even if you are commenting on something with which you disagree strongly)
- contributes something positive and new to the topic
On the flip side, there are some things you will definitely want to avoid in your comments:
- contributes little that is positive or new to the topic
- overly long or otherwise difficult to read (if your comment is longer than the original post, consider shortening it for readability)
- disrespectful in tone or language (e.g., resorting to name-calling, demonizing a person with whom you disagree, impugning motives, or calling into question the integrity of the person with whom you disagree)
- dominating the conversation (although some give-and-take is called for in a good conversation, avoid repeated postings that add little to what you have already said)
As a general guideline, the narrative for a submitted comment should conclude with your name, the city and state of your residence, and your affiliation (if any). However, given the controversial and sensitive nature of the topics being discussed, if revealing your identity will create difficulties for you, you may submit your comment anonymously.